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JM's avatar

Yay, your own way, Linda! ❤️

Yay, Anne Sexton's "Her Kind"! ❤️

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Linda Gray Sexton's avatar

JM, I love "yay your own way" and couldn't agree more about Her Kind

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Linda Gray Sexton's avatar

Jeannie, it's wonderful to hear from you and know there are flickers of Searching in these Substack pieces. It's my most popular book, and best reviewed, so I love to think that I am carrying its attributes along! I find joy in your writing as well, so it's a circle of admiration here.

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Jeannie Ewing's avatar

Linda,

I see flickers of SEARCHING FOR MERCY STREET in your post today! It is fascinating to receive a glimpse into your childhood, and what I love most is that you received this informal education about the world of writing from your mom. It was better than anything you could have achieved at a university level! Honestly, I was clueless about writing when I was a kid. Every aspect of it I romanticized. But you knew from a young age that writing was arduous, and you were willing to invest in the necessary multiple revisions. I am not surprised you were able to find your own creative voice and share it with the world. How glad I am you have and continue to do so.

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Linda Gray Sexton's avatar

Jeannie I posted a previous reply for your comment, but it seems to have gone into the wrong place, beneath someone else's comment. I hope you still see it!

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Jeannie Ewing's avatar

Got it, Linda! ☺️

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Heather Clark's avatar

So deeply moving, Linda!

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Linda Gray Sexton's avatar

Thanks, Heather! Makes me feel great to hear YOU say that!

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Maud's avatar

As usual, your writing is powerful and honest. Although I don't always understand all the poetry I read, I still find it reaches me in a way that fiction doesn't. How does one say so much in so little words?! I have thoroughly enjoyed Poetry Month, as I know you have too.

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Linda Gray Sexton's avatar

I love Poetry MOnth, as you can see from the piece. It takes me back to all those days of reading Mom's poems and writing my own. I think it's great you love it too--how wonderful to hear you say that it still reaches you in a way fiction doesn't. I think most people would say the opposite!

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Rona Maynard's avatar

My mother, who had a doctorate from Radcliffe in Milton and carried the English canon in her head, gave me a copy of TRANSFORMATIONS. In my teens, I found it a wonderfully unsettling gift. To work on that book with your mother must have been an even more challenging, unforgettable gift.

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Linda Gray Sexton's avatar

It was a gift. So much of our relationship was a gift. I often write about the troubled times,, but I try also to focus on those where we were all on the same team as well. From all I know from your work and Joyce's, your mother was a FORCE to be reckoned with!

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Neal Hugh Hurwitz's avatar

shorter please... ty!

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Lynne Barnes's avatar

Dear Linda,

What a beautiful uplift to hear/see your voice again. Thank you for this wonderful memoir piece. In 2023 I was so touched by your outreach and by the poignancy of your sudden painful loss. I meditated on the ways you, your mother, and other writers have touched me. This is just something I penned informally back then as stranger who had no way to help in reality… I simply put words of gratitude on the page and shared them with a few of my my longtime poetry pals. I hope that my clumsy attempt at self-soothing from two years ago is not harmful to you in any way as you re-emerge into communion with others. I share this with you as a way to appreciate your resilient spirit and to celebrate your return to us.

Batons

A Gratitude

Poet Ellen Bass was in a small

workshop circle with Anne Sexton,

Boston University in 1970—

over a half a century ago,

when she was only 23.

Put your ear down close to your soul

and listen hard Anne said to Ellen

and the few in that breakthrough workshop.

The real function of metaphor is

to establish intimacy she said.

Anne told the circle she was

not a confessional poet.

I am a storyteller she insisted.

Ellen went on to invite writers into small circles

to share her early stories and to listen to metaphors

and stories from budding poets for decades to come.

Anne’s daughter Linda struggled after

her mother’s suicide in the fall of ’74,

and she attempted suicide several times herself.

Keats’ half in love with death gave Linda

the title of her memoir that helped her,

and some others of us, to heal.

She reached out to readers and writers

with her hard-won wisdom harvested after

years in the desolate fields of depression.

Several weeks after I signed on to receive

Linda’s Letters which invited me with

I am inspired by life, love, writing, family,

and sometimes even dogs. A warm

welcome to you! Linda wrote again to say,

after the suicide of her son, Alexander,

I am rendered mute.

Thank you, Anne, for your breakthrough literary

stand against the gale winds of mental illness.

Thank you, Ellen, for your hopeful storytelling.

Thank you, Linda, for your brave persistence.

May you rest your ear next to your soul,

hear echos of our scribbler family love.

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Linda Gray Sexton's avatar

There is so much that interests me in what you've written that I think I need a day to digest it all. Most of all, the idea that my mother called herself "a storyteller" at the end of her life really knocked me over for a personal reason. WHenever my husband complains that I am running on at the mouth, I remind him, coolly, that I am a storyteller and that he is obligated to listen!

ANd thank you for all the ways you have so understood me here, and what I am going through; to call it bravery strikes me, I must admit, as very accurate. WHatever I am doing here, scribbling around day to day, I certainly agree that it requires some sort of courage. Am I giving myself too much credit? God, I hope not!

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